I get asked a lot about my work – not just about what it means to be a tarot reader but about the cards and readings in general. One of the things clients seem to be most concerned about is how to get the most out of their tarot reading. Here is a little sage advice I like to pass on for anyone who is considering visiting a tarot reader. How to get a great tarot reading:
1. I always suggest that people bring a list of questions that are important to them. The reason why – you may get so wrapped up in what the tarot reader is saying that you walk out without asking your most significant questions (it has happened to me!). Reflect on the issues that are the most crucial and write them down. This way, you insure the reading focuses on relevant things.
2. Avoid getting a reading if you are in a distressed state. You will not hear a word the reader is saying. The best time to get a reading is when you are calm and able to be mentally present.
3. Try not to interrupt the reader. For myself, the information comes like a ticker tape in my mind and when a client repeatedly interrupts, it breaks the flow of information. Wait until it is time to ask your questions (I always allow a generous period to ask questions).
4. Tape your reading. This is a great idea for those who tend to be forgetful. If you have a recorder, bring it. Most tarot readers won’t mind. (I personally hate the sound of my own voice – but hey, I’m not listening to it so tape away!) Otherwise, a notepad is another option. Some of my clients will even bring a buddy along who acts as a “secretary” and takes notes for them!
5. Keep an open mind and attitude. If you come into a reading with a “prove it to me” stance, you are setting a tone which is not conducive. In fact, some of us find it downright rude! I am not saying you should spill your life story when you walk in the door (I never encourage that either), but relax, uncross your arms and don’t be so defensive. Personally, I find it puzzling when someone comes in for a tarot reading but does everything possible to drag a red herring all over the place. What is the point? To prove the reader is wrong? Or to really “make them work”? RELAX. A relaxed YOU leads to a clear reading and allows the tarot reader to do their work without feeling like they have a gun to their head.
6. And most importantly, choose a tarot reader you TRUST. Best way to find a good one? Word of mouth. Listen to other people’s experiences and then decide if the reader is a good fit for you.
Happy tarot reading!
Blessings!
Theresa
www.thetarotlady.com
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I’m Theresa Reed (aka, The Tarot Lady). I’ve been a full-time tarot reader for 30+ years — which, in my industry, makes me pretty badass.
I’m definitely not your average Tarot expert — I drop the F-bomb, I quote rappers, and I’m obsessed with pop culture + reality TV. Folks come to me for straight-talk + tough-love — without the woo-woo fluff. 
